It’s safe to say I’m changing as a person. I really don’t want to deal with anybody’s shit, especially if they’re shitting on me. I can’t be kind anymore. I can’t just hold things back for the sake of peace.
It’s not for the sake of my peace.
you can be the most “behaved” woman in the world and people will still hate you, so i’m just gonna do whatever i want
Wonder how fucked up my Christmasbirthday is gonna be this year.
Will my friends fight again? Will I relegated to second fiddle again?
Let see what my spidey senses tell me. Oh joy!
You know why women often say “nothing’s wrong” when something is definitely bothering them
It’s because men have been belittling, minimizing and mocking our emotions forever
And we are socialized to be as passive and undemanding and selfless as possible, and not to run any risk of bothering or angering a man lest he abandon or hurt us
It’s not passive aggression, it is fear
oh my god
and then its so highly regarded when men show emotions